I am a failure at life.?

September 27th, 2009 | by admin |

I have had a bad day today. I was bike riding with my cuz (she was sitting on the handlebars, and before we stopped she jumped off the bike and went to the er and broke 2 of her bones. I feel so bad for her because it was my fault for not slowing down when she said to. She was getting all scared because she had never broken a bone and had never planned to in life. She was going to go to 3 awesome fun camps with me, and she has been talking about 1 for the past year, and was so excited, but now she can’t do it because she broke it. and it was my fault, she can’t go swimming, and was going to go on a cruise, but now she can’t. I feel so bad. I am always in the worst situations, like in the past, I was with people when I didn’t really want to… like I was with someone when they lost their phone, special nail polish, dog died, lost their fav ring from generations lost in the ocean, broke their bones, lost their glasses, and it keeps going on but I would end up writing a whole book if I named them all. Not only that, but I have chosen wrong decisions in life, like the friends I chose, and the guy who asked me out and I rejected… we liked each other back then, until I said no when I didn’t mean it, and well, I can tell so much it would be as long as a book too. I really messed up in my life so far. How can I make myself feel better and happier?

hey i know you prob feel bad and i guess a lot of ppl blame themselves but it really isn’t and you have to quit as you will get to the stage where you don’t want to do things. i guess just spending time doing what you want and enjoy doing and hang out with friends and just don’t always wait for something to happen.
you answered my question earlier and ill def b giving you best answer im glad im not the only one like this ive read your previous questions and alot the same with me.
if you want you can add me to chat cus your other questions had been resolved so i culdnt ans them. there u go if u want it. xxxlesaxxx@yahoo.com

  1. 7 Responses to “I am a failure at life.?”

  2. By Shortcake . on Sep 27, 2009 | Reply

    well.. dont blame your self things happen and you just move on with your life and learn from your mistakes… you know you cant feel bad you will eventually get over it and it will take time and you aint a failure.. things happen to ppl everyday and they learn from it and get over it and move forward in there daily life.. AND YOU SHOULD TOO GIRL!!!
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  3. By PAtrick on Sep 27, 2009 | Reply

    Life has it’s problems first apologize to her when on phone talk to her and never leave her be a suck up she’ll mention your sucking up say i just feel bad and life sucks normally but this time i suck then let Things take thier course
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  4. By Bethany on Sep 27, 2009 | Reply

    be with your family, talk to your friends. tell yourself it wasn’t your fault and that she was stupid for riding on the handlebars. that’s her own fault, she could have fallen weird and if she really wanted to go on that cruise and camps she wouldn’t have been doing stupid stuff like that. she can’t blame it on you and you can’t be guilty. :) all of those other things are just kuhweenkidinks. and if she reallllly wants to go on the cruise and go to camps she can, don’t let 2 broken lil bones stop ya. that is only 2 outta 206. she’ll b ok.
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  5. By ShaFrikkanNae on Sep 27, 2009 | Reply

    No,everybody has bad days and this is just one of urs.Its not lke u meant for it to happen,it was an accident.Its not that u suck at life,alot of people r around bad happenings.
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  6. By C on Sep 27, 2009 | Reply

    what u have 2 realize is that all of this is not ur fault and that her braking 2 bones is not gonna ruin her life they will heal in a few months and u will feel happier if u stop blaming urself 4 everything and jus live
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  7. By gahbrieella on Sep 27, 2009 | Reply

    (I know it sounds cheezy but…) Just think that everything happens for a reason and there’s a plan for everyone. You never know…..that cruise she would have gone on could have gone wrong, and you’d be the one to save her from going.

    Try doing something different in relashionships, instead of doing the same thing and getting the same results.
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  8. By xxxlesaxxx on Sep 27, 2009 | Reply

    hey i know you prob feel bad and i guess a lot of ppl blame themselves but it really isn’t and you have to quit as you will get to the stage where you don’t want to do things. i guess just spending time doing what you want and enjoy doing and hang out with friends and just don’t always wait for something to happen.
    you answered my question earlier and ill def b giving you best answer im glad im not the only one like this ive read your previous questions and alot the same with me.
    if you want you can add me to chat cus your other questions had been resolved so i culdnt ans them. there u go if u want it. xxxlesaxxx@yahoo.com
    References :

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